Any measure of success or failure could be attributed to one drop in a well that creates ripples which eventually leads to a tsunami. When I was able to narrow things down a bit, saw how the connections were not many individualized items to check off or solve or figure out, that I could collect all of these points of reference and bring them together into one giant thing to explore and investigate, I felt that then I was finally on to something.
Read MoreFor as long as I can remember, I've always sought out mentors. I learn better by jumping in the deep end and getting my hands dirty. That was quite a mixed metaphor. I'm leaving it in. I've also been privileged to find people that were willing to give me a chance and pass on their knowledge. But also, if I don't toot my own horn too much, I'm a good mentee. I approach any mentorship purely from an educational perspective. I want to learn, which is much more important than just trying to impress someone so they'll open up their networks to you. My mentors have been profound learning experiences that often built into friendships. The most powerful type of mentor knows when to let you go, even when sometimes you don't feel ready.
Read MoreI want to tell you about a friend of mine that passed away last week. He’s one of the major reasons why I am even here standing in front of you. Our friendship lasted for a decade, and every moment spent with him was significant. I wish I could explain the whole story, but I’ve limited myself to three experiences because the organizers of this event have a strict 7 - 10 minute policy. Okay, I’ve written four experiences, but one of them is short.
Read MoreMany years ago, I was not dressing myself very good. I think I do okay now, but back then? Back then you might’ve caught me wearing sandals with socks. And the socks might’ve had holes in the heels. Finally, a friend said, “Look, you’ve gotta do something about all this.” And she made a circular motion with her hand that seemed to encompass my entire look.
I’ve tried different things over the years. Shirts that looked like a bold choice in the store remained unworn in my closet for years. Pants that I thought I could pull off, I most certainly could not. I have a rule - if I don’t wear something at all during the season it is appropriate, the next year I donate it. This has worked to keep my closet relatively sparse.
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